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  1. A while back I wrote a guest blog for another website about my breastfeeding experiences.  I wanted to share my story with other mums as my first experience wasn’t great and I was worried that the second time would be the same.  I’ve now added the blog to my website so hopefully other mums that are also worried may take comfort in the knowledge that the second time may be completely different like it was in my case.    

    Will breastfeeding be easier second time around?

    If like me, you had a terrible time breastfeeding your first baby, a few things questions on your mind when thinking about a second baby will probably be; will it be the same second time round?  Will I have the same problems? Do I even bother trying again?

    My First baby

    I always wanted to breastfeed when I had a baby and thought it would be easy.  I’d read it might hurt a bit for the first few weeks but then it would get easier.  For me, this never happened.  My baby struggled to latch-on and it just went downhill from there.  I had pretty much every breastfeeding problem you could have – a baby with tongue-tie, bleeding cracked nipples, thrush in my breasts, an abscess in each breast which took various courses of antibiotics and many trips to the breast clinic to sort out.  I don’t think I actually had mastitis which was one good thing I suppose!  I didn’t suffer in silence, I got a lot of help from midwives, health visitors, a breastfeeding expert, my GP, but nobody could stop the pain.

    Everyone kept telling me it would get better, but I waited and waited and it didn’t.  I cried at nearly every feed, trying to eek out the time in-between them.  This, along with the guilt of potentially stopping breastfeeding and the anti-formula vibes I was getting from some people, made me very unhappy and not really able to fully enjoy this important time.  After 3 months of hoping it would get better, I made the very difficult decision to stop.  My baby didn’t seem to mind, but the guilt stayed with me for a long time.

    Deciding what to do about next time.. 

    So when I came round to having another baby, the one thing that was constantly on my mind was what was going to happen with the breastfeeding second time round?  I made the decision very early on that I would give it a try and ride it out for a few weeks.  However, if it was going to go the same way as it did first time round, I had other things to think about this time.  I had a toddler to consider, the last thing I wanted to do was to be crying in front of my toddler whilst feeding the baby – what kind of message would this pass to my little boy – he would think that the baby was hurting mummy.   I promised myself that I would not be made to feel guilty about formula feeding and I would think about what was best for me and my family. 

    Second time around.. 

    So when my little girl was born, I tried again.  From the first time I fed her it felt different.  She latched on really well and didn’t fuss.  My nipples did hurt, but they didn’t bleed.  Nipple cream was well used and after a few weeks of toe-curling latch-ons, they started hurting less and less and eventually it was actually lovely.  I’d never thought I would be able to say breastfeeding was lovely, but it was.

    I fed my second baby until she was nearly one and although I feel sad that I couldn’t do the same for my first, I know I did my best.  Obviously, whilst I can’t promise it’ll be the same for you, at least I can offer some hope that it is possible to have a positive breastfeeding experience after a not so good one. 

     

      

     

  2. So this is my first ever blog.  You’d think I’d use the opportunity to brag about how wonderful my breastfeeding vest is, but no, I’m going to tell you about a bunch of amazing products that I saw at the recent Harrogate Nursery Fair when I exhibited there.  Not only are the products fab, but the people behind them are too and in the short time I have known them (literally a couple of days for some of them) they have been an invaluable source of help, advice and support.

    So here are some companies I think you need to take a look at!

     

    Squidsoap

    If like me, you have a child who thinks washing their hands properly just involves a quick splash with water and nothing more, then you need to take a look at the clever Squidsoap. When children dispense the soap, a small ink mark is applied to their hand which will disappear if hands are washed, so no more 2 second hand washes! They’re a fun design with a bright squid toy which is more interesting for young children than your standard bar of soap!

    Squidsoap1   

     www.squidsoap.com

     

    Abeille

    Cellular blankets are a must-have item when you have a baby and the ladies on the stand next to me at the show were launching a beautiful new cellular blanket in a range of gorgeous colours.  It's not like other cellular blankets on the market, this one is surely the softest you will find and it makes the perfect gift.  Keep an eye on their website for when it becomes available.

    Abeille 

    www.abeille.co.uk/blog/abeille-baby/

     

    Love Keep Create

    I can guarantee that a lot of you have a box or two packed with all those baby clothes that you just can’t bear to get rid of, those extra special ones that really hold special memories of your little ones.  Well instead of just keeping them in a box in the loft, why not have them made into beautiful keepsakes by LoveKeepCreate? They make lovely animals or blankets and they can also turn daddy’s old shirt into a lovely dress or shirt for your little one!

     Charlie Arrow Monkey-2   Pink Dragon Original Small 

    www.lovekeepcreate.co.uk

     

    Playtoes

    These are lovely pram shoes that offer more than just your average baby shoes.  They are fun, colourful, interactive and keep babies entertained!  They’re designed to stimulate babies’ senses and makes them want to reach out and touch them. 

    www.playtoes.co.uk

     

    Creeper Crawlers

    I wish these Creeper Crawler playsuits had been around when my youngest started to crawl.  We have wooden floors and she was always slipping and sliding everywhere, really struggling to get enough grip to properly crawl.  These suits are fab because they are designed to give babies traction to help them crawl more easily!

    Banta

    www.creepercrawlers.com

     

    Squiz

    Another great idea, available very soon, are these reusable food pouches for feeding your baby while out and about.  They're dishwasher safe, ecological and really handy if you want to take your home-made purees out with you.  Also great for putting in snacks like yoghurt or smoothies for older children.  They have a resealable zipper at the bottom for easy filling.  Less mess and less hassle while feeding on the go! 

    Sqiz

    www.squiz.co/home-english/